Birthday revamp!

I would like the birthday system to be better. I would like to send birthday cards to clients, their spouse, and their kids. there is no option to do it for kids or spouse unless I create a reminder and for clients it only notifies the day of. it would be a lot of work to go through all my clients and have it remind me a week before. also It would be nice if there was an house program that worked with lion desk to send gifts/cards to clients